it's not like what mickey says, that the man has to be better than me. that's bullcrap.
what i meant was that the man has to have some quality that i can look up to and admire. i can't really explain what quality, but it's nothing superficial. attractive men, yeah, i like looking at them. but usually the men that i really like aren't good-looking.
like for example, i told my brother once that if i could marry a celebrity, it'd be alan cumming. he's skinny, he's weird, but i really, really respect him. for his skill, his mind, his intelligence. i think he's really good-looking, but none of my friends think so. they are all, "that weirdo from spy kids???"
i like intelligent men. i really do. but i don't like those that brag about their intelligence and show off and look down on less-informed people. i like my men quiet and serious and humble. he has to be philantrophic and practical, but not terribly grounded. i know many of my friends would think that a loud and funny person would suit me better, because to them i'm a crazy, high-falootin' and carefree person, but i'm not. i know myself better.
i despise men who think they're the best thing that ever happened to womankind. i despise men who try too hard to prove that too. i despise men who try to impress and to dominate. yes, especially the latter. it's not that i'm a dominatrix (and to that guy who asked if he could kiss my feet, no, you are not fit to even breathe my air, limpdick) and that i like submissive men. i will only be submissive to a man i truly respect and love.
i think i'm growing up.
this is alan cumming, FYI.
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